Five Lessons You Learn As You Grow Up

  1. Your Time is Valuable

Your time is the most valuable thing you have. How you spend your time will have a huge impact on your life. Time is an investment. You can invest your time in an education, certification classes, starting a business, healthy hobbies, or with your friends and family. Make sure the way you invest your time is healthy. Once you spend your time, you can’t get it back.

2. Change is Natural

As you grow up, you will change. You will begin to age and mature. You won’t be the same person you were five years ago. Each day is a chance to better yourself or learn something new. Your interests, hobbies, favorite songs, and your favorite foods, will all change over time. Your friends will change too. Some of your friendships might end while others grow closer. Unfortunately, loved ones will pass over time. Spend as much time with the people you love while you can. Focus on being happy. Change is natural and inevitable.

3. You Don’t Deserve To Be Mistreated

This may seem like a common sense statement, but people accept disrespect in several forms for various reasons. You don’t deserve to be mistreated by family. If a family member is speaking to you in an abusive manner or mistreating you, you don’t have to stay in that situation. You don’t deserve to be mistreated by a partner. Your partner is supposed to complete you, not tear you down. Your partner should be a person who lifts you up, not someone who brings you down. You don’t deserve to be mistreated by your employer. There are actions you can take at your job if you are in a situation where you are being mistreated or bullied. You don’t deserve to be mistreated. It is important to communicate with others when their behavior is abusive.

4. Your Mental Health Matters

Mental health is a subject that is often completely avoided. It is also highly stigmatized. People associate mental health with problems. Mental health isn’t a negative subject. Mental health is just the state of your mind. Life is stressful and there will be points in your life where you need to talk to someone. Seeing a therapist is okay and it isn’t just for people who struggle with mental health issues. Sometimes people go through situations, such as the loss of a loved one, that will make you feel things that aren’t healthy. Doing things such as hiking, seeing friends, getting your nails done, having a night with the guys, etc. are all examples of things you can do to keep your mental health in a good state. Your mental health matters.

5. Finances Are Important

How you spend your money when you are young will have a huge impact on the things you can do when you are older. It is important to start saving from a young age. Roughly 78% of workers are living paycheck to paycheck. That is an insane number of people who are not thinking ahead. Being laid off, getting injured and not being able to work, a car breaking down, and so many other scenarios would negatively impact a majority of people. It is important to save money from every paycheck to ensure you can handle emergencies. Being smart with money means you can go on more vacations or afford a day off of work if you need to.

Life will teach you many things as you grow up. Let the situations you encounter serve as lessons and not misfortunes. Always remember to work on yourself.

Author: Invest in Yourself

A healthy mind is the place where dreams come true and a toxic mind is where nightmares come to life.

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